Often times we forget what a human being's capacity really is.
We hate the idea of feeling bad with ourselves, we despite losing, failing, or when things doesn't seem to go our way.
Because of this we pretend to be okay even if we're far from being okay. We fool other people, ourselves too, that we are strong and unaffected.
The problem about us is that we try to ignore the pain.
The problem with us is that we pretend to feel numb, and pretend that we do not actually feel hurt at all.
This might work for a while, for a day, maybe for weeks but... feeling numb will never really suffice forever.
Feeling pain, exhausted, depressed, angry, lonely, hurt, jealous, insecure, envious, frustrated, confused, lost, broken, incomplete, and the likes; these are just some examples of emotions a human could not simply avoid.
All these are the trademarks of a human being. Like a symbolism engraved in our souls, just to remind us of what we really are.
We are simply humans. The nature of a human is to fall when there is defeat, but the essence of a human's life is to rise after each battle.
Sometimes you have to put down the weight of the world, enough with pretending, enough with battling your insides - though as if you have any chance at all.
We are designed this way, so no matter how we try, we will always and forever work this way.
A human feels lost once or twice in his life. A human cries and gets his heart broken, for some once, for others a number of times. We get hurt, we feel down, we feel upset, we get mad over the littlest of things.
No, this is not something to be ashamed of.
Admitting your weakness as a human is one of the nicest thing a person can ever do.
Fall back, once in a while. So that you will have time to realize and look at yourself, that you may be reminded that strength and weakness is not seen in how many defeats you have encountered, but in how many times you have stood back up when you fall.
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